Check your privilege | Personal Growth

As a person who are not born rich, I feel like working twice harder will help me catch up with life pressure.

I always grinding to achieve something, take long hour work that make me feel like if I am not doing it, i will just left behind not being able to catch up with others.

And when it sometimes goes wrong, I blame the privilege that I don’t have that others have.

Oh ya her father is director from a company, no wonder she can achieve that

Oh ya her mother is a full time mom, no wonder she is so loving

Oh ya her family is rich, no wonder that man loves her

That blaming and self saborage are really come to me to the point where of when I can’t achieve something, I blame someone’s else for what they have.

Until a podcast from “rice to meet you of NigelNg and Evelyn Mok” mention his “check your privilege!”

Well actually really everyone of us in life have a privilege

Time privilege

Imagine that you are a very busy business man who always traveling and have so many deadlines on your table. A consultant who are grinding over long hours work from 9AM to 11PM. I have been there, I just come back home at 7AM after long hours since 8AM the previous day. It makes me really think what really I am looking in life. Is it totally worth it. Looking at a person who can come home ontime, take time to have fun and dinner with their…